The parental right to smack (or not) has again been in the news in regard
to the mother of a nine year old girl using a wooden spoon on her.
Administering a small slap on the hand for a danger situation (such as a hot oven)
or a calm, private chastisement for an act of deliberate disobedience in a 2 - 5 yr old
is very different to an angry slap across the face or an out of control beating in frustration.
Effective consequences for 5+ yr olds include loss of freedoms and privileges,
and logical tangible restitution. Physical punishment for this age group is ineffective
and inappropriate.
Positive and proactive parenting is more pleasant for the child and for the parent,
and is very effective too. Our precious children need our gentle authority.
