Sunday, November 23, 2014

Temper Tantrums



Not fun.

For the parent or for the child.

Some suggestions -

Pre-tantrum;

1. Model self-control and patience yourself

2. Have a predictable pattern for most days

3. Make most of the decisions for the child

Mid-tantrum;

1. Do not give them an audience

2. Do not try and dialogue with them

3. Never give them what they are fussing for

Post-tantrum;

1. Administer a meaningful age-appropriate consequence

2. Role-play expected behaviour for next time

3. Gently and patiently teach obedience and self-control.