Calm Consistency

Sometimes I had no idea what to do.

I knew I had to do something, but didn't know exactly what.

Sometimes, later, I decided that I had chosen the wrong path.

That was okay, I would try something else next time.

Responding calmly was 'how' I would consistently do the 'what'.
To model self-control to my child. To model gentleness.
To demonstrate my love.

Calm consistency reaps peaceful fruit. Eventually.

Angry Anger

Where do you sit on the whole 'expresing emotions' spectrum?

Should toddlers be encouraged to express their feelings and frustrations to
enhance their individuality and honesty?

Should toddlers be encouraged to show restraint in regard to negative
emotions to suppress these undesirable urges?

Which path is a stepping stone to future socially acceptable behaviour?

For me?
My toddlers were welcome to be as grumpy as they liked.
Sitting on their bed.

A happy face and a cheerful spirit were welcome in all other parts of the house.
Worked amazingly well.