www.4thefamily.com.au

Hello,

I have just finished watching the IDENTITY dvd by David and Charissa Scotford.

It is beautifully shot in our Great South Land (between lovely Perth and wonderful Broken Hill)

and is just over 15 minutes long.

The focus is on bringing out the best in our children, encouraging and guiding them to be all they should be.

The presentation is practical, biblical and very balanced.

I encourage you to check it out via their website.

How can eternity influence daily tasks?

" When I used to sit down for devotions with our four boys at home my mind wasn't simply, "Ok, I have a duty as a dad: I'm supposed to do devotions at night." My mind was, "What will they become?"

We did devotions daily.

The goal isn't just to fulfill some little task that dads are supposed to do. Rather, you're building men who hopefully someday will have absorbed so much of God and so much of the Bible that it's going to shape their whole world.

And they might wind up going to Pakistan to help build shelters for earthquake victims."
JOHN PIPER DESIRING GOD BLOG

whatever

As my two sons and I sat down to our dinner of macaronin and cheese with salad, we were discussing integrity and initiative. It was a light and fun conversation, and it is always

interesting to get a young man's perspective on things.

As we were chatting, I was reminded again how precious meal times are. They are not

simply a time for eating. They are opportunities for fun, conversation,

memory remembering or making, building up and teaching.

Whatever

we do can,

and

should

be done for His glory.

Every part of every day

can be used for self,

for waste

or for eternity.

Not in a frantic, desperate sort of way, but rather a gentle, intentional

careful choice manner - to deliberately live a full and abundant life, enjoying purposeful living.

Mealtimes with toddlers are often chaotic and noisy.

Yet you can still be modelling and gently encouraging

the manners and meal time patterns you wish to see in the future.

It will take time, as with all areas of parenting, but the fruit

will be happy, peaceful and holy conversations - over meals!

Little Men - Louisa May Alcott

"Demi was one of the children who show plainly the effect of intelligent love and care, for soul and body worked harmoniously together.

The natural refinement which nothing but home influences can teach, gave him sweet and simple manners; his mother had cherished an innocent and loving heart in him; his father had watched over the physical growth of his body, and kept the litte body straight and strong on wholesome food and exercise and sleep, while Grandma March cultivated the little mind with tender wisdom of a modern day Pythagoras - not tasking it with long, hard lessons, parrot-learned, but helping it to unfod as naturally and beautifully as sun and dew help roses bloom.

He was not a perfect child, by any means, but his faults were of the better sort; and being early taught the secret of self-control, he was not left at the mercy of appetite and passions, as some poor little mortals are, and then punished for yielding to temptations against which they have no armour.

A quiet, quaint boy was Demi, serious yet cheery, quite unconscious that he was unusually bright and beautiful, yet quick to see and love intelligence or beauty in other children."

page 19 LITTLE MEN Louisa May Alcott

Melbourne 6th November 2010

Hello,

I will be speaking in Melborne on Saturday 6th November
10 am - 12 noon
$10 (includes morning tea)
Winner Hall
Arrow-on Swanston Building
488 Swanston Street
CARLTON VIC

please book through
sarah@lifeexpedition.org

It will be lovely to meet you there!

Daily

Nothing
has an impact
on kids
except
for what they do
daily.

- Ralph Winter

Adult or Child Life

I heard an interesting comment a few weeks ago.

A generation ago, families revolved around the needs and activites of the parents.

This generation, famlies revolve around the needs and activities of the children.

True or false?

Good or bad?

Positives and negatives of each ?

Food for thought.